In chapter 14 the author explained that we might be living in a death denying society. The reader learns about that stages of grief and the options elders have when it comes to death. This chapter puts a great emphasize in elders to prepare for death and to face it.
Death is one of the few things we are certain about in this life. Eventually everyone will die and we never know when it will happen. Although some die young death certainly draws nearer as we age. People who fear death are actually afraid of pain and suffering, afraid of being non-existing and afraid of what will become of their loved ones, among other fears. Kubler-Ross created stages of grief which summarizes her theory of the process of dying (Hillier & Barrow, 2011). The stages commence with denial and shock, then comes anger which transforms into bargaining with God and the last two stages are depression and finally acceptance of death. There has been a big debate on whether assisted suicide is acceptable. Many terminally illed patients have a choice of dying in a hospital or dying at home, some may choose to receive assisted suicide. Hospice is a big part of death in the way that it prepares the individual for death. They make them as comfortable and pain-free as they possibly can.
The reader can conclude that it is important that elders be prepared for death and be acceptant of it. It is something that will happen to all at one point in time. It is also important that the family of the person dying to be prepared as well.
Hillier, S. & Barrow, G. (2011). Aging, the individual, and society. 3-28. 9th ed. California: WADSWORTH
You worded it perfectly when you said that "death is one thing that is certain in life". This is very true and is something that many struggle to discuss, especially the aging population. Death can be a scary thing and to many is is beautiful, but whether you like it or not it does come sooner or later. Many elders are afraid of death but the best thing to do is to be prepared for it. This means having a will created and up to date, knowing what you want in your living will, and having security set up for when the time comes near. All of these things will make death easier on you and for the loved ones around you. Knowing the stages of grief are good as well and very helpful. Thank you for sharing this post.
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